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Gender Equality - #BC LIVE SESSION 19 recap.

Back in 2015, 193 countries agreed to reach the SDG of Gender Equality by 2030. But how do we, as individuals and collective societies, contribute to reaching this goal?


What are the narratives we tell ourselves, and how are we influenced by our communities, peers, careers and 24-hour news cycles?


Enter BRAINCANDIES LIVE SESSION 19.


About 50 people packed into the Microlab and were treated to six speakers who gave us their take on the very hot topic of Gender Equality.


Our diverse audience applauding for one of our speakers.


Our first speaker of the night was Milagros Maldonado with her talk, Society Gives You the Vision of What Gender Is. Milagros found herself in the Netherlands 28 years ago after leaving her native Venezuela. She had always had strong feminist role models in her life, both women and men, so when she landed here, she was shocked at how female participation in the workforce in the Netherlands was the amongst the lowest in Europe. Where was gender equality in this seemingly progressive country? Milagros went on to explain the influences that impact and blur our vision of equality, such as social and psychological, how history has favoured males, and how education is vital in creating an equal society for everyone.


Milagros speaking about how our surroundings shape our opinions on men and women.

Next up was Nicole van den Wildenberg, with her talk titled Individuality in Equality. Starting with a personal anecdote of how she had to convince a male that she was indeed the head of the IT department at her workplace, to describing the behind the back whisperings that she found herself the target of when she was leaving work early. They assumed she was skipping out early to deal with her kids. Weird, because she doesn’t have any! Little did these colleagues know that she was actually the event organiser for the Dalai Lama’s visit to the Netherlands. These kinds of unconscious biases surround and impact all of us. Nicole asked us to consider turning the unconscious conscious and leveraging that power to create a dialogue about not only the things we have in common, but also about our differences.

Nicole during her #BRAINCANDIES on how to act upon our unconscious biases that make us judge others.


As with all #BRAINCANDIES LIVE SESSIONS, audience participation is encouraged. This can be introducing the speakers, discussing topics with those sitting near you, asking questions, or doing different activities. It’s a lot of fun and helps to break down barriers. At this session we created poetry, built paper towers, and played slide roulette. All challenging, surprising, Innovative!


Members of the audience building the tallest paper towers during one of the wedoexperiences.

The third speaker for the evening was Jessica Zekar and the title of her talk was Inequality in Mixed Gender Sports. Jessica plays two full contact sports - rugby and quidditch. This year she was part of the national quidditch team and competed at the World Cup, something she ended up having mixed feelings about. After viewing all the footage of her matches, she realised that she was only passed the ball three times in total! It seemed that the higher the level of competition, the less likely the male players would pass the ball to the female players. Her team mates, unfortunately, shrugged her concerns off. She also looked at the top 10 goal scorers from the whole competition. Only one female was in the list. Jessica stressed that all players need to be valued and used to their full potential, regardless of their gender.


Jessica posing in front of the audience after her #BRAINCANDIES about inequality in mixed gender sports.


The only male speaker for the evening was Stokely Dichtman with Standing in the Middle of Equality. Stokely performed a beautiful spoken word poem, an Ode to Mahogany L Browne. He followed this up with how we can, and why we should, stand in the middle of equality. Our world views are shaped by who we are, our gender, our race, the colour of our skin. How can we advocate for one thing but not another? How can we fight racism if we aren’t fighting sexism? Stand in the middle and face it all.


Stokely performing his spoken words piece during his #BRAINCANDIES.

The fifth and final planned speaker was Daisy Dawson, whose talk, titled Pleasure Equality, challenged the taboos surrounding female masturbation. Daisy shared her personal journey about discovering the joy of her own body in her early teen years, but not having anyone to talk to. These days she fully embraces it, talks openly about it, and encourages other women to do the same. Daisy mentioned not only the pleasure that comes from masturbation, but also other benefits – stress release, reduction in anxiety and improved sleep.


Daisy receiving applause from the audience during her #BRAINCANDIES.


#BRAINCANDIES LIVE SESSIONS always end with an improvised speaker, and the volunteer of the night was Diana Bizzaro with Putting on Each Other’s Shoes. Diana challenged us by asking us which gender we first thought of for certain professions – nurses, primary school teachers, lawyers, bankers? She also highlighted how gender bias is already present in children, a result of the way society stereotypes girls and boys differently. To counter this, Diana suggested that parents should raise their kids without conforming to such biases.


Diana during her improvised #BRAINCANDIES.

This was such a fascinating and thought-provoking session. Let’s hope there are more in 2019.

The #BRAINCANDIES team taking the applause of the audience.



Here are what are audience thought of our #BRAINCANDIES LIVE SESSION 19.


And here some things that our audience learned:



  • Eindhoven as a community of internationals is really coming together and supporting one another


  • Creativity exercises are important and we should all do them more often


  • The diversity of the public, and the youth, show the need for this type of events, Information, interaction, learning, respect for previous generations.


  • That people are more open and confident than I thought.


  • Not being ashamed of yourself!


  • Masturbation is life


  • Embrace diversity